Stop the Hate, It’s safe in Kuwait

Stop the Hate, It’s safe in Kuwait

Posted on 29. May, 2009 by Tammy Camp in Adventure Travel, Kuwait, Middle East

As soon as I announced I would be traveling to Kuwait, the calls of concern came rushing in from all corners of the United States and other westernized cultures. Controversial issues such as safety in the region, women’s rights and cultural/language conflicts were the most popular topics of concern. What is it with most Americans and their need to believe everything the media tells them?

Safety in the Middle East

Concerned American #1
“Be careful, a war is over there!”

My reply
“Last I checked, there was a war in the country north of Kuwait — Iraq. It technically ended a few years ago.”

Concerned American #2 (My Favorite)
“Watch out for those Kuwaitis, they invaded Iraq a few years back.”

My dumbfounded reply, “Excuse me? You can’t be serious? Kuwait was invaded by Iraq in 1990 and was occupied by Iraqi Republican Guard for seven months.”

Come on people! Let’s try to educate ourselves on what is happening in the world. Most safety issues people were talking to me about were based on the lack of education in history and current international affairs. Only certain areas in the region are potentially dangerous much like the ghettos and projects in the United States. About 95% of the region is completely safe just like any other place in the world.

Women’s Rights Issues in the Middle East

Tammy wearing an abaya to visit the Grand Mosque in Kuwait.

Tammy wearing an abaya to visit the Grand Mosque in Kuwait.

Despite what most people may think, women in the middle east are treated with the utmost amount of respect. My girlfriends were very concerned when I told them I was traveling to the Middle East, especially as a single western women. Of all my travels all over the world, I’ve never been treated with as much respect for being a woman until I visited Kuwait. If you are a woman alone in the queue, you are automatically escorted to the front of the line so you do not have to wait. This also goes for anything else service related. Ladies first! The perception from media these days are men in Saudi Arabia beating their wives. Realistically, domestic abuse happens worldwide including the United States. Why the media focuses on such issues in that region is puzzling for me.

In regards to the abaya or the traditional Muslim outfit that I am wearing in this picture, it is not required. I simply put it on one time during my month long exploration of the Middle East while visiting the Grand Mosque in Kuwait.
As for the local women in Kuwait, they are not required to wear it either. About 50% of women in Kuwait wear it by choice in public because they are religious or traditional. Don’t be fooled though! Beneath their black attire, they are sporting Sex in the City type outfits such as Armani, Dior, Versace, Gucci and other high fashion couture.

Getting past the language barrier.

I have to admit I traveled like a rockstar to Kuwait. As soon as I hit the ground and stepped off the airplane, a lady was waiting for me from the Hala Service and had a sign that read “Tammy Camp”. From the gate, she escorted me to obtain my visa. She filled out all my paperwork, cut to the front of the line and paid my visa fees. After that, we whizzed past customs and I was off to my adventures beyond the airport. I recommend the Hala Service to anyone traveling to Kuwait the first time.

As far as the getting past the language barrier — Everyone speaks English. The barrier doesn’t exist!

Conflicting News Information

Here’s a bit of juicy news information. While in Kuwait, I was reading the Arab Times, the leading newspaper for the Middle East. On the front page of the newspaper they reported, “The majority of Middle East, including Israelis agrees Palestine should have their own state.”

This is not what the US is reporting. Who do you believe?

Interesting Traffic Sign – “Crossing the Red Signal Leads to Death or Prison”

Death or Prison Traffic Sign

Death or Prison Traffic Sign

The first time I saw this sign, I thought I was going to be hung to death if I drove through a red light. I had a case of western paranoia! After a few days, my interpretation of the sign had changed and new perspective came into play.

If you were a westerner in the Middle East, how would you interpret this photo?

Please leave your answer and feedback below.

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  • Sarah
    i was in kuwait a week ago .. and it was my best holiday ive ever had... i wish i could just leave my job and get a job in kuwait and live there 4 ever...
    LOVE YOU KUWAIT
  • Joshua
    My first thought on the sign was death, or jail being the penalty from running a red light. Then I remembered I may be a little bias because of American media, and shrugged it off. Now I believe the sign means that if you run a red light you could die from a car crash, and if you don't you will go to jail. Makes a lot more sense now lol
  • Guestfolkguy
    "Crossing the red line leads to death or prison" is the most basic way of saying "If you disregard this very simple law, which is in place only for your safety, we forfeit all responsibility for your corpse." :D
  • sauod
    Hello .. im Kuwaiti ... i hope u had fun in kuwait :) Peace
  • KRV
    I love the sign. It's a potent message - if you run a red light you're either going to get killed in the following accident, or be put on trial for causing it. Simple, efficient and very true.
  • I used to live in Kuwait, I got this all the time. All. The. Time.
  • Kevin
    Nice piece, been looking travel through the middle east for a while now just need to get the money together. I do have one complaint and its directed more towards the people making comments. You guys really need to stop blaming the "media" and the "US government" for the average Americans perception of the middle east. The reason why so many Americans are ignorant isn't because of the media or the government its because they are simply lazy and stupid. Its because far too many people would rather watch the next crappy reality TV show instead of reading a book or *gasp* actually look for different view points when accessing the news.
  • Jon
    European Social Health Care? Britain's National Health Service? We're shocked in Britain by the portrayal of the NHS in the US. It's not perfect but it's far from how it's being characterised in some quarters. Must say some the posters showing Obama with a Hitler moustache were jaw droppingly offensive.
  • Andrew
    I've never really done much traveling, but it's always been on top of my list. I guess I'll have to pencil in the Middle East right next to Europe and South America.

    As for the sign, I'm gonna go ahead and guess that it means if you try to cross on a red, you're likely to get nailed by a car. Meaning death. If you live, HEY! you get to go to jail.
  • steve
    I interpreted it as death from a car crash, prison if you live.
  • It's nice to hear about your positive experience, Tammy. There's probably danger in assuming there's no looming threat from the MIddle East (to America, or for Americans traveling there). But there's probably danger in assuming that the threat is constantly present, clouding any interaction we could have over there.

    Thanks for the realistic, first-person perspective!

    Brian
  • kevin
    (linkback) Believe or Doubt? It's safe to travel to Kuwait [VOTE] - http://www.pikk.com/ccdea
  • Talib
    Thanks for an honest review. I am an American who has been living in Oman for about a year and a half. I have never paid for a visa between hear an UAE or Qatar. I go in restaurants and people pay for my meals. I have friends who work in UAE (Dubai, Abu Dhabi) who are what people picture as the typical American (WASP) and they have never felt a safer place to live. The crime rates in the entire region are lower than a single non-metropolitan city in the US.
    I wish we would open up more as Americans and use our God given liberties that we have in our little blue passports to all be ambassadors to the world and honest reporters and message bearers to our own country.
  • mac
    I had a trip to Kuwait a few years back and once the people found out that I had served in the Marine Corps I stopped paying for things. Someone paid for my hotel, they arranged a driver for me that I never paid for and it was the easiest business travel that I ever had. And the Kuwait airline moved my to first class for my outbound trip.
  • Maha
    Thanks for that excellent post! hope you had a good time here and maybe you'll come back to visit soon!
  • It´s sad but true. We learn that it´s countries like China that practice censorship and influence the masses by propaganda.

    However, it´s much worse in the US. And that´s because people have their guards down. Officially there is no such thing in America, but still government successfully forms attitudes and pictures in people´s heads while people in china know what government is trying (and it has been getting much better in the last 20 years).

    And it´s no big deal to access information from all around the world anyway. Maybe that way Chinese people also think that everyone´s a terrorist in the Arabian countries. :D

    And friend of mine was travelling through Iran and he was reporting of a kindness he has never seen before. People he met in the airplane were giving him money for some ice-cream, because they felt so bad they couldn´t invite him for dinner. And even Iraq is much safer than people are telling. Baghdad might dangerous from time to time, but the rest of the country is perfect for some cheap holidays and you´ll always get a hotel room. ;-)
  • Thank you for a great post - its nice to hear positive feedback once in a while. As you know we Kuwaitis are very proud of our parliament and constitution and we have the freest press in the Arab World - no country is perfect of course, but there are many myths, as you pointed out, apart our part of the world.
    BTW four women - in a historic election - made it to Parliament and we are very proud - not through a quota system or running in a district devoid of males, but sheer campaigning, hard work and smarts.
  • Women are treated with the utmost respect in Middle Eastern countries, but the subtext there is, I fear, what I've come to call the "ivory tower effect". When I went to Saudi in early January of '91, my welcome in passport control in Riyadh was...getting arrested. I had a visa, I was on assignment with ABC News, yet since I was a woman traveling alone, there was only one thing I could be. A prostitute.

    Once I navigated past that pleasant little interlude, I found the people in Riyadh, and Dhahran, to be very friendly and hospitable. However, that "you're a woman, so you can't [drive] [go places alone] [other players to be named later]" attitude was beyond annoying. I don't think anything has changed in the Kingdom during the 18+ years since. On the plus side, in Riyadh you can get better southern Chinese cuisine than anywhere else in the world, other than Hong Kong.

    I was in Saudi for almost four months. I enjoyed the chance to visit a place that outsiders usually can't go unless on the haj, or with a contract from Aramco. It's not, however, an experience I look to repeat. The Kingdom is the very definition of "closed society", doubly-so for women.

    Kuwait, on the other hand, would be high on my list. So would Lebanon, Syria, and Jordan, in spite of the, ahem, "late unpleasantness". The world can be a challenging place, but isn't that what makes life worth living - the exploration of those challenges?
  • Tausif Ahmad
    Awesome post!

    Wish more people can take thir blindfolds off and see the beauty in the world.
  • People gave me similar concerns when I visited Israel & Palestine. They didn't realize I really wanted to travel there because it was "dangerous." Was I sorelly dissappointed.
  • Amanda
    It's wonderful to hear the truth. Thank you.
  • Ryan
    My wife grew up in Saudi Arabia and Kuwait, and I experienced these same reactions when I first visited her family in Kuwait City. I was delighted to find that everyone we visited there was very welcoming.

    Arabs are extremely charitable and family-oriented people. No wonder complications and tensions arise between us when the Western media portrays them as barbarians.
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